browsing vs stalking

stalking out his FB pg until ur eyes are burning ? lets investigates why some girls juz cant stop checking up on him.

us girls are a curious bunch.we like to know everything. especially when it comes to the man in our lives. some girls stalk because they're jeolous about their man sharing himself publicly and want to make sure that he only shares things she feels okay about (sooo true). some are juz fearful that he'll cheat or will hook up with a predator woman who has her eye on him. so in essence, clicking onto his tagged pics and monitoring his wall posts is juz a method of trying to build up an arsenal of knowledge about what he's up to and, in a way guard ur territory.

its also largely a control issue.by keeping an eye on his profile, u feel like u'r in control of ur relationship bcoz u know exactly wat he's up to all da time. the catch with this is that it may not always be the full story. bt by simply being able to "see" exactly wats happening in his life right in front of you, its satiating ur need to feel secure about ur relationship.

da nature of FB lends it self voyeurism.lots anf lots of it. click on a profile pg and u can know the ins and outs of someone's life and they wont ever know. however juz bcoz ur boy doesnt know u'r keeping tabs on him, doesnt mean its not affecting ur relatinship in some way.

remind urself that its like looking in his wallet. its dishonest. its as simple as that .acknowledge da fact dat u will bcome curious by certain things u see crop up on his pg. and instead of trying to hide it, try to be open bout it. if u get da full story from him then u wont hv to let ur imagination run away with u.


5 BETTER THINGS TO DO THAN JUZ SIT ON FRONT OF HIS PROFILE
1. check out ur own profile pg (for once) ur frens pg. ur sisters pg. or randomly pick a friend on ur list. juz dont go near his
2. eat a piece of chocolate. nobody cares about FB when there's a ferrero around
3. browse ur fave online stores. fun shopping :D
4. watch tv, bt make sure its not gossip girl (haha) da whole internet goss thing will just induce paranoia dat u dont need rite now
5. talk to a fren. juz dont discuss wats happeing in da FB scene. nothing will drive u to check his profile more than when someone going "omg hv u seen wats on (watsoeverhisnameis)'s pg ?"



am i right ?



xoxo